Remember
the saying, "You never get a second chance
to make a good first impression"? Have
we ever received a poor first impression,
which later turned out to be wrong? Vice versa, have
we ever received a good first impression,
and been disappointed later? What are some of the
first impressions we've had? Have we seen a family
member unexpectedly in an unfamiliar setting and
received a "first impression"? Have we
seen ourselves as we walked in front of a show window
and received a "first impression"?
Appearance:
Most of
us are correct in feeling like our appearance is
of prime importance in making a first impression.
Although the world today is less inclined to judge
others, still, political candidates, missionaries
and ministers, and TV announcers who try to win our
approval, dress well. And, of course, we know that
wearing a big smile and looking people directly in
the eyes can improve their impression of us. If we
look in the mirror and smile, and then scowl, we
will see how others view us. Or, perhaps we could
make a video of ourselves?
Actions:
We can't
help but love those we feel exuding love toward us.
Kind, helpful actions draw people close. And, "Fine
manners portray fine breeding."
Vehicles:
In many
instances, more people see us in our vehicles than
in our homes. Therefore, it matters that we have
decent transportation. Before I found out how underpaid
teachers were, I remember how disappointed I was
when I saw my favorite high school teacher driving
a shabby little car. Not that our autos need to be
expensive, but they can be clean and well maintained.
Housing:
Aren't we
all pleasantly surprised when we find a nondescript
person living in a home that is well cared for? And
doesn't one's front yard make an impression? It is
usually first to catch the eye. Are the walks and
drives clean? Are the lawns mowed and edged? Next
in importance would be our front entrance.
Misc:
How
wonderful it is to associate with positive people:
It's great to feel the joy they spread around!
Isn't it nice to hear a person who speaks like a
professional, or has a delightful accent? Perhaps
we should tape-record ourselves to hear the impression
we make. What a beautiful sight it is to behold
people who stand erect and carry themselves regally. "Confident
carriage commands respect."
Are we aware
or the season of life we are in? If we were an employer,
would we hire us to fill the role we are playing? Do
we make a fine first impression?
